Friday, July 20, 2012

"Watching Our Baby Grow" School Activity

I had been waiting to post this until I got a picture of the completed project, but things started falling off the wall before that happened. Then my intentions were to put everything that fell down back up so I could take the picture, but, well it just never happened. So here we are going for 90%. Good 'nuff. Right?

The beginning of last school year was also the beginning of our sweet fourth child's life in my womb. The first trimester (plus some) was pretty difficult with trying to establish our school routine and simulaneously experiencing some pretty wicked morning sickness. So to help the children connect more with what was happening and why Mommy was so sick all the time we started a "Watch Our Baby Grow" wall.

Every Monday morning we would look up information about how the baby was growing and developing that week. The website we used also gave some fun comparisons to illustrate how big the baby was growing each week. (Disclaimer: I'm not giving a blanket recommendation of everything on this website. Some content is inappropriate, especially for small children. I have two readers so I would read the information to them and not allow them to read along.) We didn't always have the item indicated by the website so sometimes we made up our own. Our items were:

5 weeks - a mustard seed
6 weeks - a grain of rice
7 weeks - a rice krispie
8 weeks - a kidney bean
9 weeks - a penne noodle
10 weeks - a mini ice cream cone ("kid size")
11 weeks - a splenda packet
12 weeks - Mama's pinky (traced on the poster)
13 weeks - a peach (I drew a circle of the right size & had one of the kids color it orange)
14 weeks - a wrapped piece of Laffy Taffy
15 weeks - Mama's cell phone (traced on the poster)
16 weeks - Mama's mascara (traced on the poster; you could tape/glue an empty bottle if you had one)
17 weeks - a potato (traced on the poster)
18 weeks - a big deli pickle (freehanded a pickle of the correct length)
19 weeks - a 6" sub sandwich (I printed a clipart of a sub sandwich, enlarging it to make it 6" long)
20 weeks - a banana (traced on the poster)
21 weeks - a salad fork (traced on the poster)

Note: I explained to the kids that up to this point we had been measuring from the baby's head to her bottom. From this point on we would be measuring from the baby's head to her heels.

22 weeks - the length of a piece of paper (drew a line along the long side of the paper and wrote "as long as this piece of paper" above it)
23 weeks - a Harry Potter book (freehanded a book shape of the appropriate size and the cover artwork)
24 weeks - a ruler (freehanded a ruler)
25 weeks - a recorder (as in the musical instrument you learn to play in elementary school - traced on the poster)
26 weeks - a burpcloth
27 & 28 weeks - a bread bag (to represent a loaf of bread).... Yep, running out of ideas. :)
29 weeks - a churro (freehanded)
30 weeks - a mini Yorkie Terrier (remember, we're only comparing length here, not overall size :) - I printed a huge clip art which covered several pieces of paper and pieced it together on the poster)
31 weeks - a 16" costume necklace from the girls' dress up accessories
32 & 33 weeks - a knee boot (traced my calf and foot and freehanded a boot shape)
34 weeks - a build-a-bear (traced on the poster)
35 & 36 weeks - a Sam's sheet cake (I just drew the edge of a cake on our poster since I didn't have the room for a replica of a whole sheet cake on my wall.)
37 weeks - a largemouth bass (freehanded a fish of the appropriate length)
38 weeks - a handbag of appropriate length
39 weeks - Channah was born. I hung up one of her premie sized onesies that she only fit in for a couple of weeks. :)



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Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I found a blessing!

I haven't been blogging much lately. There's a reason for that. (Well, I mean besides being too busy.) I haven't felt like I have anything constructive to post. And by that I mean that life has looked pretty bleak from where I sit these days, which is in the rocking chair, on the couch, at the kitchen table holding and rocking and patting and shushing my precious but very fussy baby girl.

I'm not gonna lie to you, these past 6 weeks have mostly been incredibly difficult. Most of that period Channah has cried 50-75% of her awake time and often part of her should-be naptimes as well. (We had a brief interlude somewhere in the middle where she was much less fussy, but the past 2 weeks have been worse again.) We think her crying is mostly due to tummy discomfort--gas pain and acid reflux--and have been treating her with medication, which has helped some, but has not revolutionized our life like we hoped it would. So, unfortunately this has not been the blissful newborn experience we were all hoping for.

But(!) today I had a thought! It was the glimmer of sunshine I prayed for this morning when I prayed for the strength to be a good mommy today, even though I was dog tired and even more discouraged. All this time I'm spending rocking and soothing my fussy girl allows me to slow down and not miss the little things. I know, for example, that today she tried to blow a raspberry. As her little tongue was stuck out she gave a faint blow and then immediately broke into the most adorable smile. She knew that she was onto something! What a sweet little moment. Just the memory brings little tears to the corners of my eyes. And I already know her little personality so intimately. I spend a couple of hours, at least, every day locked in eye contact with her, exchanging smiles and coos or soothing her with soft words and safe arms. I know the different pitches and meanings of her cries (sometimes). I know what makes her smile. As a mama of four these are the little things I could easily miss.

What amazes me is that this matches right up with my theme for this year: "The Little Things: Treasuring God's Blessings." I chose this theme in January (even though this is the first I've blogged about it). It seemed appropriate for a year in which I would have the sweetness of a newborn baby to treasure up in my heart. I must admit I pictured blessings of a more...um...happy nature.

But God knows. He knows that I tend to fill my time up with projects and activity, always tweeking and fixing, and letting the little things go by unnoticed. He knows that I want to do less and be more but I don't naturally know how to fulfill that desire. He knows that on my own I would get to the end of the year and sadly look back, realizing that moment by moment, day by day I forgot to notice The Little Things. So He gave me a fussy baby who forces me to lay aside my daily agenda, pause (sometimes for days at a time), and take the time to enter into moments in the life of my children. I still have a long way to go in learning to truly treasure the blessings of my new daily routine, but by God's grace I am daily intimately acquaintanted with The Little Things.
Smiling Girl, 8 weeks old
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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Lemonade & Sunshine


Leila's 3rd birthday got a little lost in the shuffle this year due to the birth of her baby sister just four days before the big day. Poor girl doesn't have a good track record. On her first birthday Seth and I were out of the country celebrating his graduation and our 10th anniversary. We celebrated that birthday the day between graduation and our departure for our cruise.

We celebrated much the same way this year (minus graduation and a cruise) by inviting several of her friends over for a Lemonade and Sunshine party a week before her official birthday.

We kept things pretty simple this year. The main feature, of course, was lemonade. But thanks to Pinterest I had this fun idea of having a drink station with all kinds of mix-ins for the lemonade. Here was the result:



We had ingredients for Strawberry Vanilla, Strawberry Basil, Grapefruit, Blackberry, and Cucumber Mint varieties. Some were more popular than others. :)

I made Lemon Blueberry Cupcakes based on this gorgeous cake. (The cake and frosting were delicious! I'm definitely going to have to try the full recipe someday.) I had also planned to make lemon curd tea sandwiches and lemon bars but alas my creative energy failed me.

I think the birthday girl was pretty happy with just a cupcake.

After our treats we played a couple of lemony games. First up: Lemon Derby. The goal was to push your lemon across the finish line using a wooden spoon. The kids (well, truth be told, the dads) had a blast.



 

Next we played a rousing game of Lemon Tag, which was pretty much just regular tag except using a lemon as the instument of tagging.


The rest of the party was just playing outside, enjoying the backyard and the nice, cool spring weather.

A week later we celebrated Leila's actual birthday the day we came home from the hospital. We had hummus for lunch by Leila's request and our weekly pizza/movie night at dinnertime with cupcakes for dessert.

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Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Milestone Moment: Benj's Tooth!

A few weeks ago Benjamin lost his first tooth!

He came into our room one morning about 2 weeks after Channah was born and woke me up. "Mommy! I have some exciting news!"

Groggy Mommy opened one eye and managed "What's that, buddy?"

"I have a loose tooth!"

I woke up with a little more enthusiasm and watched while he proudly wiggled a very loose tooth.

About a week later we were at church for a choir rehersal on a Sunday night. When we picked the kids up from childcare Benjamin proudly showed us his tooth all wrapped up in a napkin. It had come out while he was eating his sandwich for dinner.

When we got home that night I got out my brother's old tooth pillow that my mom had passed on to me the last time we were in California. (Seth was genuinely impressed that we had a tooth pillow ready & waiting for this moment. :) ) Benj proudly stored his tooth in the pocket and stowed it under his pillow. He was thrilled in the morning to find a dollar! (Our comment to attempt to avoid setting any kind of precident: "man, that tooth fairy sure is generous when it's the first tooth!")

Interestingly enough Benj seems to geninely believe in the tooth fairy. This is my son who regularly rehearses the fiction/non-fiction status of various stories of his acquaintance. If you ask him if Tinkerbell is real he says, "No! Of course not." If you ask him how he knows he'll tell you (laughing), "because fairies aren't real!" But the tooth fairy appears to be of a different breed, for some reason. I'm not sure how that works out in his fascinating little brain.

Anyway, here's our little man with his new (super cute, if I may say so) gappy smile.



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Photo Update

As my poor mother, 2000 miles away, has reminded me, I haven't posted any pictures Miss Channah since her birth. She is now 8 weeks old!

Here are a few pictures from the last few weeks:

3 weeks old

4 weeks old

4 weeks old - Mama cam :)

5 weeks old - starting to smile more!

6 weeks old - this shot captures the happy side of her little personality perfectly :)

That's the most recent picture I have.... Looks like it's time to take some new pictures!

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Thursday, June 28, 2012

A Purposeful Summer: A Great Start

The first couple of weeks of our Purposeful Summer have been a blast! We haven't implemented everything I blogged about last time, but we've gotten a great start. Here's what our purposeful summer looks like so far....

Back to the basics. In the interest of meeting my first goal for the kids (re-train them to do their independent responsibilities every day), I revamped their daily responsibility charts and posted them on the fridge. This is helping us to clarify expectations ("I forgot" is no longer an excuse since I send them back to consult the chart at key times throughout the day) and keep me from having to be central to every basic task (I explained to the big kids that I am no longer the answerer of the question, "what should I do next?" They have to go to their charts to figure that out.) Yay for sanity!

Reading. We joined several summer reading programs and started logging our reading progress. Benjamin, my little laid-back man, was a difficult to motivate. He loves to read (and is very good at it), but the moment I made it an official "thing," he balked. At first he was very resistent when I tried to get him to keep track of his time (or even just tell me if  he read at all during a certain period.) But over the course of the week he warmed up to the idea and is now having a blast racking up the minutes. Talia, on the other hand, is highly movitated by prizes & incentives. She took her love for reading to a new level and was off and running the first day, logging a total of 950 minutes for the first two weeks! (One of the reading programs we signed up for is requiring 300 minutes for the entire month to receive the prize. Um, can we say overachiever? :) ) She even picked up Charlotte's Web this week and has been steadily working her way through it. I know she can't be reading every word because it's definitely beyond her reading level, but she is picking up enough of the story to answer the comprehension questions I've thrown at her. I'm amazed! Leila has been enjoying some extra Mommy time as we try to get in 15-30 minutes each day of reading outloud. Benj and Talia have also chipped in to read to Leila, which she loves.

Enjoying the Great Outdoors! I'm ashamed to admit that getting the kids outside everyday, although always a goal of mine, has always been difficult for me. But I'm happy to say that the kids have played outside every single day for the last two weeks! They are loving our new playset which Seth & his dad constructed a few weeks ago. Benjamin & Talia both learned to pump their legs on the swings last week and are enjoying the newfound freedom of flight. It's so much fun to see the pure joy they get from wearing themselves out playing!

Pay chores. Seth and I decided that it was time to introduce the kids to a little more of the "real world" in allowing them to do some chores for pay. We decided a long time ago that there are some things our kids will do just because they are part of our family. In the spirit of, shall we call it reality, we do not want to foster in them the expectation that they will be compensated for every finger they lift. (I, for one, certainly am not!) But we also want to teach them to have a strong work ethic, and at some point that begins to include the concept that hard work, well done, results in benefits and rewards for the worker. So we designated some chores as "pay chores" which they may choose to complete only after their regular responsibilities are completed. Once again, my reluctant starter was less than enthusiastic about choosing to do more work, but after his highly motivated sister chalked up a bit towards "payday," he got with the program. They were both super excited to receive their first earned dollars last Saturday. We are encouraging them to save up for something they really want to further encourage the concept that work leads to blessings!

Summer School. [Groan] right? (They did.) But, no, really...it's fun! We're talking 10-15 minutes per day. I found some new fun websites (as well as some old favorites) and we are reviewing old skills mostly by way of computer games. We are mostly using starfall.com and funbrain.com, in case you want to know.

Service Projects. Each child is responsible for doing at least one thing every day that demonstrates that they are thinking more about someone else than themselves. They have made cards, drawn pictures, and written letters for friends & family, read to Leila, held or played with Channah, and done chores to raise money for the missions offering at VBS.

Outings. This is another area of weakness for me. I am such a homebody! I just never love the idea of going. It seems hard and stressful. But it's good for us to get out, so I am determined to make myself do it more. Last week we went to the library and the week before we took a research trip to WalMart so the kids could get some ideas of what they wanted to save their earned money towards. This week we've been on outing overload as we've had VBS every evening since Sunday. Unfortunately, Miss Channah is not the most flexible wee one so some of our outings have caused severe schedule malfunction, but ironically as this marathon VBS week has progressed she seems to be getting a little less stressed out by less than perfect sleeping conditions. Maybe we are on our way to more schedule freedom?

Fun! I made a "summer fun jar" with some of the ideas from my last blog post. I copied the ideas I wanted to include to a new document, enlarged the font, printed, and cut into strips. Last week I let each kid pick one strip of paper from the jar on Monday morning (so I would know what was coming and could plan, if needed). We put them on the refrigerator and I made sure we did each activity at some point during the week. One afternoon we got out our sidewalk paint and decorated the driveway. Another day we played board games after lunch. Saturday we got out a tarp and the hose and introduced the kids to the slip n' slide.

It has been nice to have some structure in place to help me give the kids opportunities to make some great summer memories this year. So far we are thoroughly enjoying our Purposeful Summer. How about you?

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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Channah Grace

Please allow me to (finally!) introduce you to our newest precious blessing, Miss Channah Grace. She made her entrance into the world on May 15 at 9:55am. She was 7 lbs. 10 oz. and 20 inches long, making her our biggest baby.

Now that we've covered all the obligatory stats, let me answer your real question: How do you pronounce her name? I'm glad you asked. Think of it like "Chanukah." The "Ch" makes an "H" sound (although if you want to be technical it is the gutteral "chet" sound in Hebrew) and both a-sounds are long. HAH-nuh.

"Channah" is (obviously) a Hebrew name meaning "grace" or "gracious," which makes her name "Grace Grace." In keeping with the meaning of her name we have chosen 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12 as her life verse:

"To this end we always pray for you, that our God may make you worthy of his calling and may fulfill every resolve for good and every work of faith by his power, so that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ."

Channah arrived as scheduled, via c-section. I was very much relieved that we didn't have a surprise trip to the hospital since that meant that my parents had arrived to care for the other  three children, we were able to finish our homeschool year, my doctor of choice was able to do my 4th c-section (about which I was a little extra nervous), and we were able to have our photographer friend come to the hospital and capture the special day.

We arrived at Labor & Delivery around 6:45am, were checked in by the receptionist, and were escorted to Room 13. Obviously knowing the drill, I put my hospital gown on and sat down in the rocking chair to wait for my nurse. 40 minutes later we were still waiting for someone to come in and get the party started. My cell phone rang. I didn't recognize the number, but answered anyway, out of pure curiosity. It was a labor & delivery nurse from the hospital wondering if I was planning to come in for my delivery. Totally confused, I said something super-intelligent like, "But I'm here!" She responded, "Oh great! Are you on your way up to Labor & Delivery?" "No. I'm here. Like...here...in Room 13." I don't exactly recall how that conversation ended but less than a minute later several nurses rushed in the room. The nurse who had called me started apologizing profusely. Apparently since we came close to shift-change we had just sort of fallen through the cracks. We thought it was hilarious and once they realized that we weren't upset we had a great time joking about it and laughing about the mass chaos going on to get me ready for surgery at 9:00. There were four nurses working on various preparatory procedures as well as the nurse from the nursery who would attend the birth, the anesthesiologist, and several other people in and out of the room. It was fun to recognize several of the people involved in Channah's birth who had also assisted in the births of our other children. For example, the nurse who called my cell phone was actually my (very much beloved) labor nurse when I delivered Benjamin.

After a rather frenzied hour of prep it was a case of "hurry up and wait" as my doctor was in another surgery so we waited for about half an hour before they were actually ready to take me to the OR. Once I was there it seemed to take longer than normal to get things started. People kept coming in and introducing themselves to me - an assisting nurse, the anesthesiologist (a different one than the one who came to my room earlier), the assisting surgeon, the neonatologist, etc., etc., etc. - but they still had not brought Seth in. They were putting up the sheet that prevents me from seeing what they are doing to my poor gigantic belly and getting ready to start and he still wasn't there. I was honestly panicked that they had forgotten. I remember saying, "WAIT! Where's Seth?" (They hadn't forgotten him, I guess I was just a little out of it. :) ) He came in a few seconds later.

I was really nervous about the c-section this time. There was a slight possibility that it could have been a little extra complicated because of where my placenta was attached in proximity to where the incision would be, but my doctor had told me she didn't think it would be a problem. I'm not sure why I was scared, but I spent the first few minutes tensely listening for signs of how everything was going. It wasn't long, however, before I felt the gigantic push and heard the sweet sounds of my precious baby girl. That first cry is always my favorite part!

One of the most exciting parts about the birth was that I actually got to see Channah just seconds after she was born. I was in an OR I had not been in before which was set up differently. With the other three children the warmer, scale, etc. for the baby has always been at the foot of the operating table so I have never been able to see more than a glimpse of the babies for the first 10 minutes or so after they were born. My first memories of each of their lives are of what I could hear alone. This time they had the equipment for the baby situated near the head of the table so I was able to watch all the cleaning and diapering and weighing and foot stamping sweetness. I am so thankful I was able to share in these moments.

Channah is very much adored. The kids love their new baby sister. The girls, especially, love to hold her and amuse her during her brief periods of wakefulness. Benjamin is also very sweet and patient with her crying. We aren’t sure who she looks like. She is unmistakably a Rodriquez baby, but she doesn’t look exactly like any of the other kids. When she was first born I could see Benj in her face at times and Talia at others. I was fairly certain she didn’t look much like Leila, but over the past week she has started to look much more like Leila. Her hair is lighter than any of our other babies, more medium brown as opposed to the black/dark brown hair the others were born with. So far she does not appear to have curly hair (Leila’s was curly at birth!), but in true Rodriquez fashion she has plenty of it. One distinctive feature is her super-long toes. They are adorable.

This delivery was by far the smoothest, even though it was my fourth c-section. One of my nurses told me that she read in my chart that I barely had any scar tissue at all! Considering that I had so much 2 pregnancies ago that I had stretched internally to “paper thinness,” this is beyond amazing to me. My recovery was also amazingly easy. Many of the normal symptoms that I have experienced each time were not an issue at all. God has truly answered our prayers and blessed us immensely through Channah’s birth. Another amazing answer to prayer is that I am feeling emotionally normal. Usually by the third day I start to feel mildly depressed or at least weepy and slightly irrational. By the time I left the hospital I was still feeling totally like myself. During our first week home Channah developed some issues with nursing and I had a few meltdowns due to frustration and the sheer pain of it, but overall I think it is safe to say I am avoiding the postpartum depression I have experienced with previous deliveries. I am so thankful!

We are definitely experiencing an adjustment period with the kids. They immediately loved and accepted Channah as a member of the family, but we are seeing the transition take place in other areas like obedience, getting along with each other, and responsibility. Already this week has been much better than last week, our first week “on our own,” but we are currently in the midst of obedience boot camp and would appreciate your prayers.

It takes me forever to upload pictures to the blog. Trying has delayed this post more than once, so please click here to see more pictures.

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