Saturday, October 28, 2006

Boys' Night Out

Due to a girls-only baby shower that Kiersten went to last Friday, Benjamin and I were able to enjoy our first Boys Night Out!

(A little family history: My dad used to take my brother and I out on a regular basis for "Boys Night Out," which usually included going to the mall or the miniture golf course or a movie. It's a family tradition I plan on continuing.)

We ended up at the local Toys 'R Us. They have a little indoor playground that I thought Benjamin would enjoy. As it turned out, Benjamin mostly wanted to explore and stretch his walking legs (while holding onto Dada's fingers, of course). We walked around half the store! (You could tell that Benjamin had been couped up in our tiny house all day.) Along the way, we checked out other children, enjoyed spinning some wheels in the Hot Wheels aisle, and played with various things that caught our fancy.

Eventually, we made it to the back of the store where all of the bikes, scooters, and wagons are on display. Benjamin really enjoyed trying out a rocking horse. He loved leaning back and forth, making it move on his own. As you can see from the picture, it was just his size. We also had a good time giving Benjamin his first taste of an ATV (all-terrain vehicle). The battery in it was mostly dead, so we had to use "Daddy Power" (which was fine since Daddy had to steer anyway). We went round and round the area several times, and Benjamin enjoyed looking at the scenery on the back of a big, bad machine.

We had a great time, but unfor- tunately the evening wasn't painless. After Toys R Us, we went to Mr. Jamie's house where I was going to hang out with some guy friends. While Jamie and I were hanging out, I started chasing Benjamin around the coffee table. This is a game that has developed recently in which Benjamin runs away from you while holding onto something for support. The best thing in the room for us to play around was a coffee table. Unfortunately, he got too excited at one point, lost his balace, and hit his mouth on the edge of the table. It is commonly known that baby teeth are exceptionally sharp, so naturally Benjamin got a bloody lip out of the deal. (Kiersten says she was glad she wasn't around for that "first".) He cried while I dressed his wound, and was finally consoled when we gave him his bedtime bottle. His lip's a little swollen, but he's going to be fine. I guess it wouldn't have been a genuine "Boys Night Out" without the spilling of some blood. Way to be a trooper, Benjamin!

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Party!

Well, I was waiting to see if I could sneak some of my father-in-law's pictures in with mine, to fill in some of our gaps, but I think it's high time to post some birthday party pictures! So, without further ado....

Benjamin Trivia...answers

Benjamin Trivia Answers

1. What date is Benjamin’s actual birthday?
c. Oct. 11

2. What time was Benjamin born?
b. 1:07 pm

3. What did Benjamin dress up as when he was just 3 weeks old?
d. a pea-in-a-pod

4. When did Benjamin start sleeping through the night?
a. 9 wks.

5. Where did Benjamin spend his first Christmas?
d. in California, with his grandparents

6. When he is in a new place, Benjamin looks up. What is he looking for?
c. a ceiling fan

7. On March 10, 2006 Benjamin sat up for the first time. If you caught him sitting on his own what would his position be?
b. ankles crossed in front of him

8. By 6 months old, Benjamin was miserable. What was the problem?
d. he had severe eczema

9. At 6 months old, Benjamin was diagnosed with several allergies. What is Benjamin NOT allergic to?
a. cats

10. On Memorial Day Benjamin took his first trip to…
a. the pool

11. When Benjamin is eating he can often be heard making the following sound:
b. saying “mmm”

12. In June, Daddy took a long trip to Israel to help lead a study tour and participate in an archaeological dig. How long was he gone?
c. 5 weeks

13. One week before Daddy left on his trip, Benjamin’s life changed. How?
b. he found out he is going to be a big brother

14. How did Benjamin “keep in touch” with Daddy while he was gone?
c. a video of Daddy reading & singing

15. While Daddy was in Israel, Benjamin said his first word. What was it?
d. Da-Da

16. Benjamin started crawling…
a. within an hour of Daddy’s return from Israel

17. Two days after he started crawling, Benjamin lost his “best friend.” What was the identity of this special item?
d. his “paci”

18. When he was 9 months old, Benjamin received an “extreme makeover.” What made the significant difference?
b. he got his first haircut

19. What is Benjamin’s “name” for his Mama?
a. “Da-Da”

20. What word does Benjamin NOT say?
c. Baby (“Ba Ba”)

21. What is Benjamin’s latest “trick”?
a. clapping

And no, it does not make anyone a bad friend if you didn't know the answers. It makes you not nearly as obsessed with Benjamin's life as we are--which is perfectly fine and normal! Now if you're a family member, that's a different story! (kidding, I'm kidding!!)

Monday, October 16, 2006

Benjamin Trivia

We played this game at Benjamin's party on Saturday. I thought it would be fun to post it here for those who might want to try! Think of it as a blog test :) I'll post answers in a couple of days.

Benjamin Trivia
(a celebration of Benjamin’s milestones over the first year of his life)

1. What date is Benjamin’s actual birthday?
a. Oct. 2
b. Oct. 10
c. Oct. 11
d. Oct. 14

2. What time was Benjamin born?
a. 11:07 am
b. 1:07 pm
c. 7:07 pm
d. 11:07 pm

3. What did Benjamin dress up as when he was just 3 weeks old?
a. a giraffe
b. a chili pepper
c. a bumble bee
d. a pea-in-a-pod

4. When did Benjamin start sleeping through the night?
a. 9 wks.
b. 11 wks.
c. 6 mo.
d. 9 mo.

5. Where did Benjamin spend his first Christmas?
a. at home, with just Daddy & Mommy
b. in Nashville, with Uncle Phil & Aunt Vicki
c. in Arizona, with Uncle Kevin & Aunt Erin
d. in California, with his grandparents

6. When he is in a new place, Benjamin looks up. What is he looking for?
a. a TV
b. a mirror
c. a ceiling fan
d. the moon

7. On March 10, 2006 Benjamin sat up for the first time. If you caught him sitting on his own what would his position be?
a. slouching
b. ankles crossed in front of him
c. legs spread wide apart
d. squatting

8. By 6 months old, Benjamin was miserable. What was the problem?
a. he wasn’t eating enough
b. he was colicky
c. his ears hurt
d. he had severe eczema

9. At 6 months old, Benjamin was diagnosed with several allergies. What is Benjamin NOT allergic to?
a. cats
b. dogs
c. milk
d. eggs
e. wheat
f. peanuts
g. dust mites

10. On Memorial Day Benjamin took his first trip to…
a. the pool
b. the park
c. the emergency room
d. the zoo

11. When Benjamin is eating he can often be heard making the following sound:
a. gagging
b. saying “mmm”
c. blowing raspberries
d. crying

12. In June, Daddy took a long trip to Israel to help lead a study tour and participate in an archaeological dig. How long was he gone?
a. 10 days
b. 2 weeks
c. 5 weeks
d. 2 months

13. One week before Daddy left on his trip, Benjamin’s life changed. How?
a. he lost his blankie
b. he found out he is going to be a big brother
c. he moved to a new house
d. he got his first tooth

14. How did Benjamin “keep in touch” with Daddy while he was gone?
a. a photograph in his crib
b. email
c. a video of Daddy reading & singing
d. he forgot all about him

15. While Daddy was in Israel, Benjamin said his first word. What was it?
a. bye-bye
b. no-no
c. Ma-Ma
d. Da-Da

16. Benjamin started crawling…
a. within an hour of Daddy’s return from Israel
b. the day before Daddy returned from Israel
c. while we were visiting his grandparents in California
d. one Saturday morning

17. Two days after he started crawling, Benjamin lost his “best friend.” What was the identity of this special item?
a. his giraffe
b. his “little green man”
c. his teddy bear
d. his “paci”

18. When he was 9 months old, Benjamin received an “extreme makeover.” What made the significant difference?
a. his eczema went away
b. he got his first haircut
c. he fell down and got all scraped up
d. he got new clothes

19. What is Benjamin’s “name” for his Mama?
a. “Da-Da”
b. “Ki-Ki”
c. “Ba-Ba”
d. “Mother Dearest”

20. What word does Benjamin NOT say?
a. Da-Da
b. Down (“Dah”)
c. Baby (“Ba Ba”)
d. All Done (“Ah Dah”)

21. What is Benjamin’s latest “trick”?
a. clapping
b. walking
c. dancing
d. getting out of his crib

October 11, 2006...


...Benjamin's first birthday!

Wednesday morning, when we heard the first sounds of a little boy waking up, Seth and I both went into his room singing "Happy Birthday." We had a very happy little audience of one!

For breakfast I made Benjamin special wheat-free,
egg-free, milk-free pancakes. As a side note, allergen- free batter doesn't make the best letters or shapes. Benjamin didn't seem to mind.

After breakfast we got ready to go to Bible Study at church. Benjamin got to play with some of his favorite church toys while Mama was in her Bible Study. His teachers wished him Happy Birthday!

Unfortunately, the big day included an unplanned but necessary trip to the dentist's office for Mama (story in another post), but Benjamin was well-behaved and happy during the appointment. He continued to be in a great mood even though a trip to the pharmacy further delayed his now long-overdue afternoon nap. What a good boy!

We had to wake him to go to dinner at our church. Benjamin ate part of Mama & Daddy's chicken and green beans. He is starting to eat more and more table food.

After dinner we went home and played in the living room together. Benjamin has the greatest time tumbling around on the floor and playing silly games with Daddy. Mama got in on the action too!

Sunday, October 08, 2006

Benjamin's First Pumpkin

Saturday we took a trip up into Indiana to Huber's Family Farm where Benjamin got his first pumpkin!

We took a picnic lunch and ate by a little lake. Benjamin loved watching the ducks play in the water. He even shared his peas with them. When we finished lunch we got on a trailer pulled by a big tractor, which took us to the pumpkin patch. We looked around for the perfect "Benjamin-sized" pumpkin, but couldn't find any small ones. He had a good time climbing around amongst the pumkins, though. We took the ride back to the market and finally found the little ones in a bin outside.

On the way home we stopped by another little family market and picked out (less pricey) pumpkins for the rest of the family. Seth got a taller, skinny one; Kiersten got a really round one:); and we even got a little teeny tiny baby pumkin for Baby Girl. We'll wait to post the pictures of our "pumpkin family" until we get them carved!

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Happy Boy!

Benjamin discovered clapping today. (He has been able to make the clapping sound for several months, with help; he would hold his hands "stiff" and we would hit them together for him.) But today he decided to do it himself. He is quite pleased.

Another recent development is the never-tiresome game of peek-a-boo. It's hard to say when he started playing. It was a gradual thing, really, but we have several different versions:

1) blankie/pants/any available fabric version- Benjamin pulls the blankie/pants/fabric over his head, then yanks it off and laughs hysterically.

2) hands over his face version- Benjamin puts his tiny hands over his eyes (sometimes not quite covering them) , then yanks them off and laughs hysterically.

3) mama's hands over her face version- Mama puts her hands over her eyes (always covering thoroughly), then Benjamin yanks them off and laughs hysterically. (The addendum to this one is that he usually puts them back over my eyes for me.)

4) mama or Benjamin or both hiding behind something version- Mama or Benjamin (or both!) hide just out of sight then "pop out" (Benjamin leans). Then Benjamin laughs hysterically.

And he never gets tired of it. And it never ceases to be hysterically funny. He makes me laugh!

Monday, October 02, 2006

A Daddy & His Boy

These two are so sweet together! Benjamin loves his "Da Da," and Seth his Benjamin. I've probably said it before, but Benjamin is really a Daddy's Boy.

Saturday I gave both Father & Son much-needed haircuts. Here is the result....

Ultrasound Pictures

Here are the promised ultrasound pictures. I will give a little commentary with each to help you identify what you are seeing. (Hint: Use your imagination!)
This is Baby Girl's little face. She is looking directly at the "camera." (Yes, she looks like a skeleton.) The top of her head is to the left and her chin is to the right. The circular outline to the right of the skeleton face is her belly.
Here is her tiny foot. It is near the top of the scan--the brightest white blob. Her toes are to the left and her heal is to the right.

This is my favorite! It shows a full-body profile. It is not quite as obvious in the still-shot as it was during the "live" ultrasound, but she is completely doubled in half and her knee is nearly touching her nose. Her head is to the left (a white "c" outlines the top of the head), her face has some white highlighting on it. At the top you can see a little gray protruding nose. Her body is all curled up. You can see a white, straight, diagonal line just under the word "PROFILE"; this is her leg.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

4-Month Belly

Pregnancy #2 (Baby Girl)



















Pregnancy #1 (Benjamin)

A Series of Unfortunate Events

For posterity, I just have to record the amazingly awful week we had last week. I should say awful in the sense of circumstances. God miraculously sustained us through it so that even though we were tired and worn out we were not crushed or beaten down. As I typed that it reminded me of 2 Corinthians 4: "We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair;...struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies." (vv. 8-10) I want to be careful to acknowledge God's grace and kindness to us in the midst of "one thing after another" so that we will remember this crazy week not as a disaster, but as the opportunity it was to grow closer as a family, experience the love of fellow believers, learn to better serve each other, and even get some needed work done on the house. Now, on with the story....

Monday was the day Benjamin was diagnosed with pinkeye and other misc. infections so our week started with a sick baby and all the extra love and care that goes into that scenario. That night was the first of 2 nights of recording for our church's Christmas album. As much as I hated to miss it, I stayed home with Benjamin while Seth went to the recording. (We figured they needed his bass voice more than my alto. It's a typical church choir with twice as many women as men!) It was a late night for both of us.

Tuesday Seth began to get sick (sore throat, nasty cough, stuffy head, feeling generally "blah.") Nevertheless, he pressed through his work day, recorded his *SOLO* for the album, and rejoined the choir for recording that night. Benjamin was well enough to stay with a babysitter, so I was also able to go to the recording that evening. Another late night, although we finished a bit early. By the time we got home Seth was feeling really badly. We decided Wednesday would have to be a "sick day" for him to recover.

So Wednesday morning I got up, got Benjamin and myself fed, dressed, and ready for my doctor's appointment. Oh yes, I already told this story.... This is the flat tire story. In summary, Seth's "sick day" was fully consumed with tire-related events, ultimately leading to the mandatory replacement of our 2 back tires.

Thursday Seth was feeling worse than ever so we decided to try the "sick day" thing again. This time he was able to get a decent amount of extra rest and began to recover. Unfortunately by Thursday afternoon I was wondering if I was beginning to come down with the bug. Seth planned to return to work Friday, but was still feeling hot and dizzy if he was up for too long so we ended up dragging around the house, as a family, for most of the day.

Friday night the excitement began.... Seth and I had just finished a game of Dominos. It had been raining all day, during the later evening hours it had been pouring. Seth looked out our back door and found that the creek behind our house had overflowed to the point where the water had come up to our back step and was about an inch from overtaking it and flowing right into the kitchen. (When he opened the back door you could hear the rushing river.) Upon further exploration, we discovered that our house was completely surrounded by water. The front step (and thus the front door and living room within) was in equal danger of being overtaken by the torrent. In fact, the water was flowing through the crawl space underneath the house. Of even more immediate concern was the fact that our Rubbermaid shed, containing all our Christmas decorations, off-season clothes, Benjamin's wardrobe for the previous and next year, camping equipment, etc. was already submerged in 6 or more inches of water. We began to panic as we wondered how much longer it would rain and what that would mean for our little house. We even thought about evacuating, but by the time we gathered accurate information on the weather and tried several means to determine our actual danger the water had begun to receed. Relieved, we were finally able to abandon our watch and crawl into bed around 3:00am.

Saturday morning we started out just after breakfast to survey the damage in the shed. As we unloaded it we were pleasantly surprised to find that we had been smarter than we remembered. A consistent "foundation" of plastic storage totes lined most of the floor space in the shed and kept most of our possessions out of the water. We did lose most of a box of old "memories" (journals, special cards and letters), which was a bit sad, but we were able to salvage some of the more important items. The biggest relief, to me, was that none of our Christmas decorations were ruined, despite the waterlogged cardboard box on the bottom of the stack. Plastic bags and styrofoam packing had kept everything dry!

Sometime mid-Saturday we were alerted that the storms weren't over. In fact, we were expected to get as much as 6 more inches of rain before Sunday morning. We knew the saturated ground wouldn't absorb much more and that the creek would rise even faster if we received that much more rain. So we began to prepare our house for flooding. It was a whirlwind morning and afternoon as we ran around, in our exhausted stupor, trying to discern priorities and save the greatest number of our possessions as possible. (As little as we are attached to our scraps of furniture and "budget decor" we certainly can't afford to replace any of it at this point!) By late Saturday afternoon all the furniture was up on blocks and everything was up off the floor (covering the bed, couch, tables, chairs, even filling Benjamin's crib). We decided to take my Dad up on his offer to let us use some of his hotel "points" to evacuate to a nearby hotel. Thankfully, although somewhat anticlimactically, the final "big storm" never came. Our house was safe and dry.

Sunday we spent the afternoon and evening at a friend's house. By this time Benjamin was feeling more than a little unsettled from all the chaos and confusion so I spent the afternoon playing with him and trying to instill some structure back into his life while Seth went back to the house to begin putting it all back together. We decided it was a good opportunity (almost equal to moving!) to get some thorough vacuuming and cleaning done, so it was a big project. He got Benjamin's room back to order Sunday afternoon. We spent the night with our friends Sunday night.

Monday we worked hard all day long to get things put back together. By Monday night things were looking much better! There were a couple of projects on our to-do list that just made sense to tackle while things were torn apart, so we weren't able to return to full normality until about Wednesday.

Needless to say, this saga took up much time and energy that Seth, especially, didn't really have to spare. His schedule is already so packed with working nearly full time and a difficult homework load. Much of that was neglected, by necessity, while we dealt with these issues. So he is still trying to get back on his feet, catching up on work and homework, as well as continuing to deal with the busyness of life. We would appreciate your prayers for him as he tries to balance this pressure.

The crowning detail to the story is rather poetic, actually. Benjamin is sick again, with a touch of pinkeye and a bacterial infection (sound familiar?), which I seem to have come down with last night. Sigh. Life is never dull.

It's a...

healthy baby GIRL!

That's right, folks, the Rodriquez family is about to become, as one friend put it, "a perfectly symmetrical little family." We had an ultrasound this past Tuesday morning where we not only were able to determine the gender of this little one, but were able to see that all the little parts of her body are developing as they should. Praise God! Pregnancy is every bit the same miraculous experience the second time around.

We are very excited about having a little girl added to our family. For some reason we were also surprised. I was just so sure we were having a boy. In fact, that morning I was joking with Seth: "well, this afternoon we'll get to call everyone and tell them we're having a girl!" We will definitely have to start balancing out the baby blue with some girly pink around here! Their shared room should be an interesting challenge to decorate!

I will scan the ultrasound pics soon and get them posted. (Well, some of them.... Somehow it just doesn't seem appropriate to display the one labeled "girl" for all the world to see.)