Sunday, January 03, 2010

A Guide to Resolutions in the New Year

This is not an update, although I hope to post one in the first part of this coming week. But I had to share this thought-provoking article:

Ten Questions to Ask at the Start of a New Year or On Your Birthday

Once, when the people of God had become careless in their relationship with Him, the Lord rebuked them through the prophet Haggai. "Consider your ways!" (Haggai 1:5) he declared, urging them to reflect on some of the things happening to them, and to evaluate their slipshod spirituality in light of what God had told them.

Even those most faithful to God occasionally need to pause and think about the direction of their lives. It's so easy to bump along from one busy week to another without ever stopping to ponder where we're going and where we should be going.

The beginning of a new year is an ideal time to stop, look up, and get our bearings. To that end, here are some questions to ask prayerfully in the presence of God.

1. What's one thing you could do this year to increase your enjoyment of God?

2. What's the most humanly impossible thing you will ask God to do this year?

3. What's the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your family life this year?

4. In which spiritual discipline do you most want to make progress this year, and what will you do about it?

5. What is the single biggest time-waster in your life, and what will you do about it this year?

6. What is the most helpful new way you could strengthen your church?

7. For whose salvation will you pray most fervently this year?

8. What's the most important way you will, by God's grace, try to make this year different from last year?

9. What one thing could you do to improve your prayer life this year?

10. What single thing that you plan to do this year will matter most in ten years? In eternity?

In addition to these ten questions, here are twenty-one more to help you "Consider your ways." Think on the entire list at one sitting, or answer one question each day for a month.
11. What's the most important decision you need to make this year?

12. What area of your life most needs simplifying, and what's one way you could simplify in that area?

13. What's the most important need you feel burdened to meet this year?

14. What habit would you most like to establish this year?

15. Who is the person you most want to encourage this year?

16. What is your most important financial goal this year, and what is the most important step you can take toward achieving it?

17. What's the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your work life this year?

18. What's one new way you could be a blessing to your pastor (or to another who ministers to you) this year?

19. What's one thing you could do this year to enrich the spiritual legacy you will leave to your children and grandchildren?

20. What book, in addition to the Bible, do you most want to read this year?

21. What one thing do you most regret about last year, and what will you do about it this year?

22. What single blessing from God do you want to seek most earnestly this year?

23. In what area of your life do you most need growth, and what will you do about it this year?

24. What's the most important trip you want to take this year?

25. What skill do you most want to learn or improve this year?

26. To what need or ministry will you try to give an unprecedented amount this year?

27. What's the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your commute this year?

28. What one biblical doctrine do you most want to understand better this year, and what will you do about it?

29. If those who know you best gave you one piece of advice, what would they say? Would they be right? What will you do about it?

30. What's the most important new item you want to buy this year?

31. In what area of your life do you most need change, and what will you do about it this year?

The value of many of these questions is not in their profundity, but in the simple fact that they bring an issue or commitment into focus. For example, just by articulating which person you most want to encourage this year is more likely to help you remember to encourage that person than if you hadn't considered the question.

If you've found these questions helpful, you might want to put them someplace—in a day planner, PDA, calendar, bulletin board, etc.—where you can review them more frequently than once a year.

So let's evaluate our lives, make plans and goals, and live this new year with biblical diligence, remembering that, "The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage" (Proverbs 21:5). But in all things let's also remember our dependence on our King who said, "Apart from Me you can do nothing" (John 15:5).

Copyright © 2003 Donald S. Whitney.

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

A Sample from the Dissertation

It's "Show & Tell" time. I know many of you have been curious about this "dissertation" that has brought so much trial and tribulation into our lives, so I thought I would provide you with a sample of what I've been working on for the last few months. (... Not to mention the fact that I just finished a section and am proud of how it turned out and want to show it off a little.) ;-)

The dissertation is going to have several appendices which will list all of the artifacts that I uncovered in my study and will provide some details about each one. It will also have several pages that display the pictures or drawings of these artifacts that are found in the scholarly publications. So below is a sample from the list of sword and dagger artifacts, along with the page that displays some of the pictures from that list. You can match up numbers B121, B124, B126, and B127 in the list and in the picture. (To match up the rest, you'll have to consult the dissertation when its finished.)


While we're on the topic, please keep praying for us. I need to get this work completed by February 10th, and there is still much work left to be done.

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Monday, December 14, 2009

New Orleans

The week before Thanksgiving the kids and I had an opportunity to travel with Seth to New Orleans where he attended the annual ETS meetings. He was already planning to drive and get a hotel room so we decided to go ahead and come along for a change of pace.

We packed up the car Monday night after the kids went to bed and at midnight we put them in the car and started the 15 hour drive. You may recall the sleep issues we were having with Talia the week before--she was awake for the first 3 hours of the trip (from midnight to 3am)! Crazy girl! Benj & Leila, however, slept all night and didn't wake up until we were about to stop for breakfast. We arrived in New Orleans around 3pm. The kids were definitely done with the car, but all said it was a pretty smooth trip. I was pleasantly surprised.

Seth's meetings started the next morning so he drove downtown and the kids and I hung out in the hotel all day. I had brought tons of puzzles, crafts, games, movies, and had some other tricks up my sleeve. We did a hotel scavenger hunt where we walked around the hotel and found hotel staples such as the ice machine, a couch, a TV, a newspaper, a coffee pot, a housekeeping cart, the pool, and the elevator (which we rode up and down to every floor). I was worried about naptime, but I put Leila & Talia on one side of the room and then Benj & I read books and watched a movie (with headphones) on the other bed. It probably worked so well only because Talia was exhausted from her sleeplessness the night before.

Thursday the kids and I took Seth downtown and then we headed to the north shore of Lake Pontchartrain to visit with some Louisville friends who moved away about 2 years ago. We got to cross the longest bridge in the world, 24 miles right across the middle of the lake. For you Californians, it felt like driving on a really long pier. We had a great day. Kim has 3 little boys, roughly our kids' ages. The big boys really had a great time together, which was sweet to see, considering Will was one of Benj's first "friends" (we were in a play group together with 2 other moms when our first born sons were just a few months old).

Friday morning Seth had an inpromptu initial interview with a college in South Carolina. He had placed his resume on a table at the conference for that purpose and Friday morning he got a call on his cell phone from someone who had picked it up. He was in-between sessions and was actually able to meet with him right away. Needless to say, this was an encouragement to Seth. At lunchtime the kids and I drove back downtown to pick up Seth and a former professor of ours for lunch. We had a great and encouraging time with him. The kids, especially Talia, were very impressed with "Mama & Daddy's teacher." :) Friday afternoon Seth was able to hang out with us. We watched a movie together and then had dinner.

Saturday morning we had planned to walk around the outskirts of the French Quarter-- take a ferry across the River, go to Cafe DuMonde, do the Riverwalk, etc. but we woke up to gray skies and a steady drizzle which we learned was supposed to last all day. We decided to take our car across on the ferry and just drive around the French Quarter a bit. We ate lunch at a mall on our way out of town and found a Cafe DuMonde there where we ordered beignets and a latte to go. (Don't send me hate comments, but I could have skipped the beignets. The coffee was good.) We then headed across Lake Pontchartrain once again (Seth didn't want to miss out on the experience.) This time was even more interesting; due to the clouds we were unable to see any more than a hint of a horizon when we were in the middle of the lake.

Our drive home was also pretty uneventful. Leila was fussy in the late afternoon and early evening but all 3 kids were asleep by 10:00pm. We drove all through the night and arrived home just before dawn (6:00) on Sunday morning. We brought the kids in and put them in bed where they stayed until 10:30!! It was nice to get a bit of restful sleep before they woke up.

And in case you are wondering, this whole crazy trip DID fix Talia's early morning rising! She has been on schedule with the rest of the family ever since! Hopefully next year's ETS meetings will line up appropriately with the time change--otherwise I don't know what I will do. :)

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Friday, November 13, 2009

Schedule Sabatoge: Epilogue

Ha! Would you believe it? The irony! 7:45 this morning. :) Well, that was Talia. Benjamin slept in until...are you ready for this? 10:00! He was so worn out, poor guy.

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Thursday, November 12, 2009

Schedule Sabatoge: I QUIT!

7:10 this morning. I'm quitting. I was having a great deal of fun with this for a few days but I realized this morning that I am just getting plain frustrated because it doesn't seem to be working. Giving up my down time for a greater purpose is one thing, but I think I've reached the point of diminishing returns. Anyway, there's no sense in me getting frustrated about it, especially since we will be travelling next week. Maybe that will fix this ridiculousness. So, there you go. Schedule Sabatoge, see you next year ... maybe.

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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Schedule Sabatoge: Day 4

Day4:
7:15 wake up
8:45 breakfast in the car
12:45 lunch
1:30-??? nap
5:15 dinner
9:30 (10:00?) bed

Argh! 7:15 again this morning. Ok, ok, we can handle a little regression. Still, I thought we might have it. I was a bit disappointed. Benj, on the other hand, slept in until 8:30. I think we're killing him. That boy loves his sleep. :) On the other hand, if he was *that* tired he *could* nap, which he still refuses to do, so I guess I don't feel too badly!

I'm posting early today because I already know what our schedule will be for the rest of the day. Wednesdays are crazy already so no purposeful schedule modification needed today. The only variable will be how long Talia will sleep at nap time.

Cereal in the car again this morning (on the way to church). Lunch and then straight to nap. (Trying to send Talia to AWANA tonight with an inadequate nap?--I'm not even going there.) So I'll let her sleep as long as she needs. I'm willing to inflict this experiment upon myself, but I'm trying to spare the public. :) We will have an early dinner at church and then the kids are off to AWANA until 8:00. By the time I gather all 3 kids and all related jackets, backpacks, crafts, and other paraphernalia it will be 8:15-8:30ish so we won't get home until just before 9:00. I hope to feed the baby and get all 3 in bed by 9:30 but that may be major wishful thinking so we may be looking at another 10:00 bedtime. Take THAT, Schedule!

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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Schedule Sabatoge: Day 3

Day3:
??? wake up
8:30 breakfast
1:00 lunch
2:00-4:45 nap
6:15 dinner
9:00 bed

Can you believe it? I don't know what time Talia woke up this morning! How anti-climatic! We've had some rough nights lately which means I've been pretty tired so I slept in this morning. When I woke up at 8:00 all three kids were awake--Benjamin & Talia quietly reading books in their beds and Leila babbling happily to herself. (What a dream! Can you believe it?) I'm pretty sure Benjamin had been up since 6:45 when he woke up to go potty (he had quite a stack of books on his bed), but Talia only had 3, which probably means she hadn't been awake for long. My guess is she slept in until about 7:45. Wahoo!

Breakfast was early this morning, but due to haircuts & the required kitchen clean-up afterward lunch was late. After lunch Talia went straight to her nap. Although she didn't really want to lay down she fell asleep pretty quickly and slept soundly. So soundly, in fact, she was sopping wet when she woke up. Evidently it's a good idea to put a nap pull-up on a sleep deprived toddler.

I'm putting them to bed a bit late and I'm hoping that tomorrow morning we'll be back in business!

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