Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Milestone Moment: Benj's Tooth!

A few weeks ago Benjamin lost his first tooth!

He came into our room one morning about 2 weeks after Channah was born and woke me up. "Mommy! I have some exciting news!"

Groggy Mommy opened one eye and managed "What's that, buddy?"

"I have a loose tooth!"

I woke up with a little more enthusiasm and watched while he proudly wiggled a very loose tooth.

About a week later we were at church for a choir rehersal on a Sunday night. When we picked the kids up from childcare Benjamin proudly showed us his tooth all wrapped up in a napkin. It had come out while he was eating his sandwich for dinner.

When we got home that night I got out my brother's old tooth pillow that my mom had passed on to me the last time we were in California. (Seth was genuinely impressed that we had a tooth pillow ready & waiting for this moment. :) ) Benj proudly stored his tooth in the pocket and stowed it under his pillow. He was thrilled in the morning to find a dollar! (Our comment to attempt to avoid setting any kind of precident: "man, that tooth fairy sure is generous when it's the first tooth!")

Interestingly enough Benj seems to geninely believe in the tooth fairy. This is my son who regularly rehearses the fiction/non-fiction status of various stories of his acquaintance. If you ask him if Tinkerbell is real he says, "No! Of course not." If you ask him how he knows he'll tell you (laughing), "because fairies aren't real!" But the tooth fairy appears to be of a different breed, for some reason. I'm not sure how that works out in his fascinating little brain.

Anyway, here's our little man with his new (super cute, if I may say so) gappy smile.



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Photo Update

As my poor mother, 2000 miles away, has reminded me, I haven't posted any pictures Miss Channah since her birth. She is now 8 weeks old!

Here are a few pictures from the last few weeks:

3 weeks old

4 weeks old

4 weeks old - Mama cam :)

5 weeks old - starting to smile more!

6 weeks old - this shot captures the happy side of her little personality perfectly :)

That's the most recent picture I have.... Looks like it's time to take some new pictures!

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Thursday, June 28, 2012

A Purposeful Summer: A Great Start

The first couple of weeks of our Purposeful Summer have been a blast! We haven't implemented everything I blogged about last time, but we've gotten a great start. Here's what our purposeful summer looks like so far....

Back to the basics. In the interest of meeting my first goal for the kids (re-train them to do their independent responsibilities every day), I revamped their daily responsibility charts and posted them on the fridge. This is helping us to clarify expectations ("I forgot" is no longer an excuse since I send them back to consult the chart at key times throughout the day) and keep me from having to be central to every basic task (I explained to the big kids that I am no longer the answerer of the question, "what should I do next?" They have to go to their charts to figure that out.) Yay for sanity!

Reading. We joined several summer reading programs and started logging our reading progress. Benjamin, my little laid-back man, was a difficult to motivate. He loves to read (and is very good at it), but the moment I made it an official "thing," he balked. At first he was very resistent when I tried to get him to keep track of his time (or even just tell me if  he read at all during a certain period.) But over the course of the week he warmed up to the idea and is now having a blast racking up the minutes. Talia, on the other hand, is highly movitated by prizes & incentives. She took her love for reading to a new level and was off and running the first day, logging a total of 950 minutes for the first two weeks! (One of the reading programs we signed up for is requiring 300 minutes for the entire month to receive the prize. Um, can we say overachiever? :) ) She even picked up Charlotte's Web this week and has been steadily working her way through it. I know she can't be reading every word because it's definitely beyond her reading level, but she is picking up enough of the story to answer the comprehension questions I've thrown at her. I'm amazed! Leila has been enjoying some extra Mommy time as we try to get in 15-30 minutes each day of reading outloud. Benj and Talia have also chipped in to read to Leila, which she loves.

Enjoying the Great Outdoors! I'm ashamed to admit that getting the kids outside everyday, although always a goal of mine, has always been difficult for me. But I'm happy to say that the kids have played outside every single day for the last two weeks! They are loving our new playset which Seth & his dad constructed a few weeks ago. Benjamin & Talia both learned to pump their legs on the swings last week and are enjoying the newfound freedom of flight. It's so much fun to see the pure joy they get from wearing themselves out playing!

Pay chores. Seth and I decided that it was time to introduce the kids to a little more of the "real world" in allowing them to do some chores for pay. We decided a long time ago that there are some things our kids will do just because they are part of our family. In the spirit of, shall we call it reality, we do not want to foster in them the expectation that they will be compensated for every finger they lift. (I, for one, certainly am not!) But we also want to teach them to have a strong work ethic, and at some point that begins to include the concept that hard work, well done, results in benefits and rewards for the worker. So we designated some chores as "pay chores" which they may choose to complete only after their regular responsibilities are completed. Once again, my reluctant starter was less than enthusiastic about choosing to do more work, but after his highly motivated sister chalked up a bit towards "payday," he got with the program. They were both super excited to receive their first earned dollars last Saturday. We are encouraging them to save up for something they really want to further encourage the concept that work leads to blessings!

Summer School. [Groan] right? (They did.) But, no, really...it's fun! We're talking 10-15 minutes per day. I found some new fun websites (as well as some old favorites) and we are reviewing old skills mostly by way of computer games. We are mostly using starfall.com and funbrain.com, in case you want to know.

Service Projects. Each child is responsible for doing at least one thing every day that demonstrates that they are thinking more about someone else than themselves. They have made cards, drawn pictures, and written letters for friends & family, read to Leila, held or played with Channah, and done chores to raise money for the missions offering at VBS.

Outings. This is another area of weakness for me. I am such a homebody! I just never love the idea of going. It seems hard and stressful. But it's good for us to get out, so I am determined to make myself do it more. Last week we went to the library and the week before we took a research trip to WalMart so the kids could get some ideas of what they wanted to save their earned money towards. This week we've been on outing overload as we've had VBS every evening since Sunday. Unfortunately, Miss Channah is not the most flexible wee one so some of our outings have caused severe schedule malfunction, but ironically as this marathon VBS week has progressed she seems to be getting a little less stressed out by less than perfect sleeping conditions. Maybe we are on our way to more schedule freedom?

Fun! I made a "summer fun jar" with some of the ideas from my last blog post. I copied the ideas I wanted to include to a new document, enlarged the font, printed, and cut into strips. Last week I let each kid pick one strip of paper from the jar on Monday morning (so I would know what was coming and could plan, if needed). We put them on the refrigerator and I made sure we did each activity at some point during the week. One afternoon we got out our sidewalk paint and decorated the driveway. Another day we played board games after lunch. Saturday we got out a tarp and the hose and introduced the kids to the slip n' slide.

It has been nice to have some structure in place to help me give the kids opportunities to make some great summer memories this year. So far we are thoroughly enjoying our Purposeful Summer. How about you?

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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Channah Grace

Please allow me to (finally!) introduce you to our newest precious blessing, Miss Channah Grace. She made her entrance into the world on May 15 at 9:55am. She was 7 lbs. 10 oz. and 20 inches long, making her our biggest baby.

Now that we've covered all the obligatory stats, let me answer your real question: How do you pronounce her name? I'm glad you asked. Think of it like "Chanukah." The "Ch" makes an "H" sound (although if you want to be technical it is the gutteral "chet" sound in Hebrew) and both a-sounds are long. HAH-nuh.

"Channah" is (obviously) a Hebrew name meaning "grace" or "gracious," which makes her name "Grace Grace." In keeping with the meaning of her name we have chosen 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12 as her life verse:

"To this end we always pray for you, that our God may make you worthy of his calling and may fulfill every resolve for good and every work of faith by his power, so that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ."

Channah arrived as scheduled, via c-section. I was very much relieved that we didn't have a surprise trip to the hospital since that meant that my parents had arrived to care for the other  three children, we were able to finish our homeschool year, my doctor of choice was able to do my 4th c-section (about which I was a little extra nervous), and we were able to have our photographer friend come to the hospital and capture the special day.

We arrived at Labor & Delivery around 6:45am, were checked in by the receptionist, and were escorted to Room 13. Obviously knowing the drill, I put my hospital gown on and sat down in the rocking chair to wait for my nurse. 40 minutes later we were still waiting for someone to come in and get the party started. My cell phone rang. I didn't recognize the number, but answered anyway, out of pure curiosity. It was a labor & delivery nurse from the hospital wondering if I was planning to come in for my delivery. Totally confused, I said something super-intelligent like, "But I'm here!" She responded, "Oh great! Are you on your way up to Labor & Delivery?" "No. I'm here. Like...here...in Room 13." I don't exactly recall how that conversation ended but less than a minute later several nurses rushed in the room. The nurse who had called me started apologizing profusely. Apparently since we came close to shift-change we had just sort of fallen through the cracks. We thought it was hilarious and once they realized that we weren't upset we had a great time joking about it and laughing about the mass chaos going on to get me ready for surgery at 9:00. There were four nurses working on various preparatory procedures as well as the nurse from the nursery who would attend the birth, the anesthesiologist, and several other people in and out of the room. It was fun to recognize several of the people involved in Channah's birth who had also assisted in the births of our other children. For example, the nurse who called my cell phone was actually my (very much beloved) labor nurse when I delivered Benjamin.

After a rather frenzied hour of prep it was a case of "hurry up and wait" as my doctor was in another surgery so we waited for about half an hour before they were actually ready to take me to the OR. Once I was there it seemed to take longer than normal to get things started. People kept coming in and introducing themselves to me - an assisting nurse, the anesthesiologist (a different one than the one who came to my room earlier), the assisting surgeon, the neonatologist, etc., etc., etc. - but they still had not brought Seth in. They were putting up the sheet that prevents me from seeing what they are doing to my poor gigantic belly and getting ready to start and he still wasn't there. I was honestly panicked that they had forgotten. I remember saying, "WAIT! Where's Seth?" (They hadn't forgotten him, I guess I was just a little out of it. :) ) He came in a few seconds later.

I was really nervous about the c-section this time. There was a slight possibility that it could have been a little extra complicated because of where my placenta was attached in proximity to where the incision would be, but my doctor had told me she didn't think it would be a problem. I'm not sure why I was scared, but I spent the first few minutes tensely listening for signs of how everything was going. It wasn't long, however, before I felt the gigantic push and heard the sweet sounds of my precious baby girl. That first cry is always my favorite part!

One of the most exciting parts about the birth was that I actually got to see Channah just seconds after she was born. I was in an OR I had not been in before which was set up differently. With the other three children the warmer, scale, etc. for the baby has always been at the foot of the operating table so I have never been able to see more than a glimpse of the babies for the first 10 minutes or so after they were born. My first memories of each of their lives are of what I could hear alone. This time they had the equipment for the baby situated near the head of the table so I was able to watch all the cleaning and diapering and weighing and foot stamping sweetness. I am so thankful I was able to share in these moments.

Channah is very much adored. The kids love their new baby sister. The girls, especially, love to hold her and amuse her during her brief periods of wakefulness. Benjamin is also very sweet and patient with her crying. We aren’t sure who she looks like. She is unmistakably a Rodriquez baby, but she doesn’t look exactly like any of the other kids. When she was first born I could see Benj in her face at times and Talia at others. I was fairly certain she didn’t look much like Leila, but over the past week she has started to look much more like Leila. Her hair is lighter than any of our other babies, more medium brown as opposed to the black/dark brown hair the others were born with. So far she does not appear to have curly hair (Leila’s was curly at birth!), but in true Rodriquez fashion she has plenty of it. One distinctive feature is her super-long toes. They are adorable.

This delivery was by far the smoothest, even though it was my fourth c-section. One of my nurses told me that she read in my chart that I barely had any scar tissue at all! Considering that I had so much 2 pregnancies ago that I had stretched internally to “paper thinness,” this is beyond amazing to me. My recovery was also amazingly easy. Many of the normal symptoms that I have experienced each time were not an issue at all. God has truly answered our prayers and blessed us immensely through Channah’s birth. Another amazing answer to prayer is that I am feeling emotionally normal. Usually by the third day I start to feel mildly depressed or at least weepy and slightly irrational. By the time I left the hospital I was still feeling totally like myself. During our first week home Channah developed some issues with nursing and I had a few meltdowns due to frustration and the sheer pain of it, but overall I think it is safe to say I am avoiding the postpartum depression I have experienced with previous deliveries. I am so thankful!

We are definitely experiencing an adjustment period with the kids. They immediately loved and accepted Channah as a member of the family, but we are seeing the transition take place in other areas like obedience, getting along with each other, and responsibility. Already this week has been much better than last week, our first week “on our own,” but we are currently in the midst of obedience boot camp and would appreciate your prayers.

It takes me forever to upload pictures to the blog. Trying has delayed this post more than once, so please click here to see more pictures.

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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

A Purposeful Summer


It took about one week of being on our own after all the grandparents left to motivate me to find something constructive for these children to do all summer. They definitely need some direction. *I* definitely need some direction!

So, I know I'm starting a little late, but I got on Pinterest and my search engine yesterday and dug up some ideas to give our summer some purpose. I thought I might not be the only one who didn't have a plan, so I thought I'd share my idea list. If you are in our area I included some helpful links too.
Goal Setting
To start out, we plan to have each kid set a goal. I read about families who set goals in 3-4 different areas or who set multiple goals per child, but that seemed overwhelming to us so we thought one goal per child would be doable. Since this is our first time doing this I thought the kids might have a hard time with a "blank slate" so I thought of some examples of goals they might want to adopt.
  • Academic - Read x books or read x minutes per day, write and illustrate a story
  • Personal - Learn to tie shoes
  • Physical - Learn to cross monkey bars, learn to swing by myself, learn to ride a bike, learn to throw a frisbee
  • Spiritual - I don't have any examples, but I thought this was a good category for another year
I also set my own goals for the kids to give me an idea of what type of loose structure I would like to have. Here are my goals for the kids:
  • Re-train them to do their independent responsibilities every day (we've gotten off track)
  • Read everyday (join reading programs)
  • Play outside everyday
  • Start doing some chores for pay
  • Do 10-15 min. summer school everyday (to keep up math & handwriting skills)
  • Do something special for someone else everyday (to help with "me" focus)
  • One outing per week
  • Each child work on one character trait that needs improvement (occassional Bible Study time with Mommy, memorize verses, accountability, etc.)
For the sake of example, and because I need some new motivation and accountablity for myself I set a few personal goals too:
  • Try not to be on the computer unless the kids are resting or in bed
  • Say “yes” more
  • Discipline more, yell less
  • Work on self-control with my words when I'm frustrated




Summer Reading Programs
One thing I remember doing in the summer when I was a kid was choosing new books to read. I remember participating in the summer reading program at the library. I remember my mom taking me to the bookstore in the mall to pick out a new classic to take on a trip. I remember spending summers in high school devouring my summer book list for my AP English classes. Our kids love to read and they are good readers, but I figured a little motivation couldn't hurt. I searched for "summer reading programs" online and found lots of great options! The kids are excited that they can win prizes for something they do anyway.

Fun at Home
Sometimes all we need to make a normal day into a memorable summer day is a good idea. Here are some fun ones I found around on various lists and posts or came up with on my own:
  • Outside Play
    • Water play (sponge bombs, pool, wagon, sprinkler toy, hose Homemade slip n’ slide
    • Sidewalk paint/chalk
    • Bubbles
    • Build a fort
    • Wash the car
  • Board Games
  • Camping (esp. backyard &/or basement)
  • Watch the Olympics (July 27-Aug 12, 2012)
  • Read chapter books outloud
  • Catch fireflies
  • Ice Cream for Dinner
  • Fondue Night
  • Grilling/Eating Outside
Outings
I need a little motivation to get out of the house most days. These ideas motivated me; how about you?
  • Farms/Farmers Markets             
  • Swimming
  • Library
  • Play Dates/Play Group
  • Parks (playgrounds & splash pads)
  • Feed ducks
  • Yard Sales
  • Picnics
  • Hiking
  • Free classes at Lowe’s (ages 5+) – every other Saturday, 10:00, 1 hr.
  • Free classes at Home Depot (ages 5+) – 1st Saturday of the month, 9:00
  • Free classes at Michael’s (usually ages 3+)           
  • Bass Pro Shops’ Family Summer Camp, June 9 – July 15 Tu, Th, Sa, Su 1pm-5pm (Free photos, crafts, activities, workshops)
Projects
I remember learning to type as a summer project one year. Seth, his brother, and his dad worked on models in the summer. This inspired me to think about some summer projects we might undertake. Here are a few ideas:
  • Memorize a Bible passage as a family
  • Do a hard puzzle as a family
  • Do a simple sewing project
  • Learn a new hobby
How about you? What do you have planned for the summer?


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P.S. I apologize for the (as Talia would call it) "wiggy waggy" formatting. For some reason I can't figure out how to fix it.

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Nursery Update

I was hoping to do a "Nursery Reveal" post of the finished nursery, but I just can't wait anymore! :) So instead I am posting an 85% finished nursery update.

Once I had the basic color scheme and theme decided, my biggest inspiration for each element was the cheap factor. Even though we became DEBT FREE--except the house--earlier this month (this topic definitely deserves its own post), we still have some big financial goals to hit and so are working hard to live as frugally as possible. This means I didn't really have a budget for decorating the nursery, aside from a little bit of "fun" money I had saved up and what I could squeeze out of the household category in our regular monthly budget. It's a good thing I have a huge stash of fabric people have given me, Pinterest, and an obsession for awesome deals. :)

As you walk in the doorway you see the crib area. The first thing I made for the nursery was the crib bumper & skirt. I ordered the fabric from fabric.com (there went that "fun money" I mentioned) and just happened to hit Hancock Fabrics on a huge sale weekend when I went to buy the batting and a few other materials. (Yay!) The colors are so bright and cheerful. I love them!

Here is a close-up of the mobile. I made this using the idea posted here, but with some modifications. (For example I did NOT hand-sew each bird--no thanks!--and I hung it with skinny grosgrain ribbon instead of clear wire.) I think the mobile is my favorite element in the room so far. :)

I couldn't resist using the header from the blog as the inspiration for the wall art behind the crib. (Who knew I was this drawn to birds??) As I pondered what to put on all these blank walls, I was really trying to avoid spending $3-4 each on canvases, but it seemed all the DIY wall art I was finding started with a canvas as a base. Of course $4 is better than the hundreds you could spend on buying wall art, but I kept stubbornly searching for an alternative. Eventually I found this idea. I decoupaged scrapbook paper on as the base of my "canvases" to give it a softer more whimsical look than the paint used in the original tutorial.

I decided it was finally time to recover our yard sale rocking chair. The original English farmhouse upholstry didn't match the nursery at all and was wearing very thin. I thought this would be a pretty quick project, but it ended up being a 2-man, lengthy ordeal. Let's just say upholstry tacks aren't the easiest thing in the world to pound into a piece of hard wood. Thankfully Seth saved the day with his handy dandy drill and precision drilling skills. Thanks, Babe!

I still need to make a pillow for this chair. I'm thinking a taupe pillow with a bright yellow rick-rack flower in the center.

I saw an adorable bird painting for sale ($110--ack!) and immediately thought, "I could totally do that!" The way the birds were depicted reminded me of thumbprints and an idea was born. Here is our version featuring the thumbprints of baby girl's 3 older siblings. I didn't keep track of who's prints are who's, except that the dark pink, light pink, and medium pink birds at the bottom of the tree were stamped by Benj, Talia & Leila, respectively.

I made these little birdhouses just for fun (I found the pattern here) because who can have a bird nursery without birdhouses? I also saw some adorable tiny wooden birdhouses at Michael's that I was sorely tempted to purchase, but since I could make these for free I exercised all my willpower and went with this version. I'm thinking about hanging a branch on the wall above the changing table and hanging or propping these in it with some birds dangling from the branches.

Lastly, here is the shelving under the changing table. Never having had an actual changing table before (we have always used a long dresser with a changing pad on top), I was not sure what to do with all this shelf space. After perusing lots of nursery decor blogs I decided that baskets were really the only option. Of course, you know me...I was not interested in spending the money to buy 4 large baskets so I set about searching for an alternative. I orginally found an idea to cover diaper boxes with canvas, but I had a huge piece of taupe cotton fabric in my stash that I wanted to use instead of buying canvas. So I found a slip cover for plastic crates and modified it to fit diaper boxes instead of the crates. My friend Stephanie found those cute magazine boxes at the dollar spot at Target. I have no idea what to put in them yet, but I think they go perfectly! :)

I still need to paint and hang some shelves to go above the rocking chair, find a lamp & a clock, and figure out what to do with the window, but it's definitely coming together!

Thanks for looking/reading!
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Thursday, March 22, 2012

A New Season for Couponing

Not so very long ago I was full to the brim with couponing energy. I had a great system that was working well for me and was saving tons. Our grocery budget for our family of 5 was about $250 per month and things were ticking along like clockwork.

Then two little pink lines on a little stick from the Dollar Tree changed all that. Don't get me wrong, they weren't unwelcome lines. They were actually lines we were hoping to see, but these lines were very distruptive to my serene little clockwork routine. Even when morning sickness was finally over (if you are still lost on the "lines", yes, I'm talking about baby #4 on the way) there were projects to complete, preparations to be made, and transitions to be initiated. My coupon-devoted Sunday afternoons were a thing of the past.

So what to do. I don't like spending money I know I could be NOT spending, but I was having trouble finding a new couponing routine. One afternoon I sat down and wrote to my coupon mentor (I don't even know her, but she's taught me tons), Crystal, author of my favorite coupon blog (moneysavingmom.com.) My basic question to her was: how do you effectively use coupons without it taking over your life? Today I found out from a friend that my question (and Crystal's answer) had actually been posted on MoneySavingMom! If you have the same question (or are just curious about how mine was answered), take a look.

I share this for two reasons:

1. Friends have often shared that they wish they could coupon, but they just don't have time. If this is you, maybe the tips and ideas shared both in the original post and in the reader comments will give you some fresh ideas. I definitely got some fresh inspiration!

2. In the interest of keeping it real! While it's much more enjoyable to write about successes and the clockwork seasons, reality is, folks, that life is kinda rough around the edges right now. It's not pretty, but it's true. You may remember I hate the supermom myth (and I hate it some more here), so here it is, folks: I can't keep up with everything right now! In so confessing I found some inspiration to regroup, restructure, and keep right on doing the best I can.

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